I ( 16M ) got married at 15 w my wife ( 18F ) , it wasn’t a love marriage , we are gipsy and like in a Turkish/Indian drama we got pushed into this arranged marriage by our families , to give some more context , I was raised to fallow my fathers every order or command and I always listened to my fathers orders until I was 15 , it wasn’t my rebellious stage or smth , it was just that I didn’t want marry but in the end my mother convinced me to do it by guilt trapping me , after all we got married but I don’t have feelings for her , and I don’t think she has feelings for me either , and the bad part is that I am together with another gal for 3 months now , which I love very much and I plan to divorce my wife so I can be with her , but I feel bad because I took my wife’s virginity and if i divorce her she can’t get married anymore , not with another gipsy at least , AITA even thou I was forced into this marriage ??? Should I divorce or should I keep this charade up ?

One Person comment:

I think you are the a hole.. not for divorcing your wife, but I feel you should have made things clear with her from the beginning.

I know you are really young, and you were forced into this marriage, but you have cheated on her. I think you guys could have talked about finding love outside your marriage as it’s clear you both don’t love each other. Also, you took her virginity, and now she won’t be able to get married, so that might be a huge issue for her in the future as she is only 18 rn.

See, i know you are in a tough spot, but based on whatever you have said before, I feel like your wife might face consequences. So I feel talk to her about separating maybe. Don’t bring up divorce and see how she reacts.